I am a T'ai-Chi Teacher and Singer/Songwriter living in Ashland, OR. Please visit my site: www.GeneBurnett.com for more info about my teaching and music. At my site I have over 30 albums of songs available for downloading free or with a donation. This blog is dedicated to musings about what I like to call "The Unforced Life" and newsletter posts about what I'm up to monthly.
Here's
my philosophy about information and specifically information that I possess: If
I can't find it, I might as well not have it.
So
all the information that I possess, be it emails, pictures, videos, files,
links, whatever, I can find pretty quickly. It was just a matter of setting up
folders and sub-folders, and this is important, actually putting the
information in those folders as it comes in.
This
is much more time consuming to set up than to maintain. Once it's up and in
place, it's easy to keep going. But...you have to do it, or it will just
devolve into the same old mess.
So
if someone sends me a picture of me playing music tonight at the Wild Goose...I
label the picture: GB/Goose/10-27-16 then go to my folder called “Pictures”,
subfolder “Me”, subfolder “Music”, subfolder “Wild Goose”, subfolder ”2016” and
drop it in that folder. Done. And I can find it at a moment’s notice should I
need it for any reason. Most of the things I file away like this, I will never
use or maybe never even look at...but I have no idea which ones I will use or
need to look at, so I file them all this way.
As
I said, it’s a lot easier to maintain than set-up. But I took the time to do
it, so now all I do is maintain it. If I have it, I can find it.
Same
with emails. The only emails I keep in my inbox are pending matters like emails
regarding scheduling lessons this week…or notifications of new posts from
youtube channels that I subscribe to that I want to watch soon…anything that’s
current and not something I want to lose or file away. Everything else I either
delete, handle, and/or put in a subfolder in my email account. I have over 700
subfolders and my inbox as of this writing has one email in it. I never
lose emails. Anything important I can find pretty fast.
I
realize that I am a pretty organized person. For a musician, I’m like NASA
level organized. But I’m not super uptight about it. I’m actually pretty
relaxed about it. It’s the people who are not organized who always seem to be
raging about misplacing something or other. And they’re often not too clear about
their mission or purpose either. I am pretty clear about my mission. That too
was harder to get clear about than maintain. But I took the time and got clear
about it. Now I just want to enact that mission. Being able to find the
information that I have at a moment’s notice helps me do that. So that’s why I
set up my information this way. Because if I can’t find it, I might as well not
have it.
I think I am
basically a happy person. And by happy, I mean I feel good about and enjoy my
life, I don’t covet anything, and my days are not filled with discontent. I’m
not wildly ecstatic or giddy or smiley all the time, far from it. I have my ups
and downs like most people do, but generally, I feel happy with the quality of
my life and I feel that way most of the time.
And here is
the key to this happiness: Getting over myself.
Sure we can
all improve our circumstances, but the happiest people I know are over
themselves. And the more someone is over themselves the happier they seem to
be. They might not accomplish as much as striving competitive ambitious people,
or people who consider themselves specially destined for greatness, but they definitely
seem happier. It’s certainly been true for me.
Contrary to
the American Dream, I don't think that success makes people happy or helps them
get over themselves. I know some happy people who are also successful, but I
don’t know anyone who’s happy and successful whose happiness is based on their success. The happiest
people I know, whether they’re successful or not are over themselves.
I'm not
saying don't succeed, by all means do, but in my experience, the thing that
helps people get over themselves the most is failure, facing death, and the
experience of limitation.
When I’ve really
been humbled, then at least I have the opportunity to get over myself and just
be a person doing what I love as much of the time as I can, and rolling with
the rest. I don’t look down on other people or consider myself inherently
better or worse than anyone else, and I’m happier for it.
For me failure
is the best teacher of this. But the funny thing is, I can't fail unless I try,
so I have to try and, you know, "Follow my dreams." and all that, but
as I see it, it's not the dream coming true that will make me happy, it's what
I might learn if I fall short.
The flip side
is also true. I can wallow in failure, martyrdom and self-pity, and I need to
get over myself when I do that as well, at least I do if I want to be happy. Striving
and wallowing may be necessary at some points in every life, and it may be a
given person's nature to strive or wallow, but I don't associate either of them
with happiness because they both hold a person apart in some
"special" zone instead of in the soup with the rest of humanity.
What makes me
happy is to get over myself, the idea that I am “special”, extraordinary,
gifted, and deserving of some special destiny, and instead realize that I am an
ordinary person, part of a huge evolving Universe, lucky to be here at all,
doing my work and playing my part, no better or worse than anyone else. And the
only thing that really teaches me this is failure, missing the mark,
limitation, and death. If I had been more successful when I was younger, and by
successful I mean had more worldly acceptance and appreciation of my work, I
doubt if I would be as over myself, and as happy, as I am now. It was failure
that forced me to recognize my humanity and my essential ordinariness.
So I say: Go
for it. Follow your dreams. Reach for the stars. And keep reaching until you
fail. That’s where the gold is. Once you fail and get over yourself, you can
just do it for love and be happy you’re doing it at all.
I’m happy to say I now have hard copies of my new album “Love & Heartache”.
I still have to wait for my web man to get it up on my site…I still have to
send a copy to CD Baby for them to make it available on their site as well through
them to iTunes and other e-retailers of music…but it’s still nice to have the
hard copies in hand. My albums hardly sell at all. I would make more money from
music each year if I didn’t record anything. They only get heard by a very
small number of people. But I feel that recording them and sharing them is
something I need to do. I’m proud of these songs…they tell the stories of my
life. Yeah, I know, who cares about that…these are pretty much vanity
projects…but when someone else resonates with one on my songs…when it releases
a similar charge for them that I felt when I wrote and recorded it…it’s a
really nice feeling...the feeling of making a connection through sound, words
and melody. I never know if any given album will be my last. I wonder every year
if I have anything else to say and I wonder that now. But in any case, this
baby will be up on my site pretty soon and I’ll let you know right here when it is.
I posted a few new videos this month: 3 Rogue Poetry Slam videos, 3 T’ai-Chi
videos, and one Misc. video. See links below in the Video section of this post.
So here we go…I’m going to start with local shows in case
you’re in the Rogue Valley and then proceed with the usual information about
where to find my music, videos, and pictures, including information about new
projects.
There is so much to listen to and watch on the net these
days…I’m amazed anyone even gets this far in the newsletter let alone watches
or listens to anything I’m doing. I’m sincerely grateful for every view, every
listen, and every nice comment I receive. I’m happy if anything I post truly
reaches even one person. I’m offering all this stuff in a “just in case you’re
interested” spirit.
Upcoming Shows:
Monday, October 3rd,I'll be playing at one of my favorite
Ashland venues, Liquid Assets.A relaxed living room vibe with
great service, excellent food and wine, and a really nice place to listen to
music. I play from 8-10pm
Wednesday October 5th, I'll be hosting my regular Themed Open
Mike at The Wild Goose Café & Bar. Usually this
happens on the First Wednesday of every month. This month's theme will be
our “3rd
AnnualCountry (ish) Songs”,
so musicians and spoken word artists will be doing songs and poems, covers or
originals, that are country-ish in any way. We're never too strict or narrow
about the themes for this event. The main idea is to focus our attention a
little to hopefully inspire and motivate us creatively. These are always
fun community events. No Cover at the friendliest bar in Ashland. Sign-up
is 7:30pm. Show starts at 8:00pm. *A
heads up for next month: Wednesday, November 2nd, 2016: “6th
Annual Political Songs”
Wednesday, October 11th,
I'll be playing atThe Wild Goose Café & Bar. Just me solo from
8-11pm. Friendliest bar in Ashland. Never a cover at The Goose.
Saturday, October 15th, from 10am-Noon, my good friend Jesse
Biesanz and I are hosting a Hacky Sack session at the Band Shell in Lithia Park.
This will happen on the third Saturday of every month. We both miss the fun and
camaraderie of a good friendly Hack Circle and…more importantly, we miss the
practice! It’s fun, aerobic, cooperative, demands balance, coordination, quick
thinking and accuracy…So whether you’re new to the game, or an experienced
player who wants to brush up your skills, or an expert who just wants to meet
some new players, come on by. Hacky Sack basically involves keeping a small
footbag in the air, usually leather and fairly soft, using only your feet. When
there are more than two players, it’s usually played in a circle. If the circle
gets too big, it is split into smaller circles.
The only rules of this Hack Circle:
1. You’ve got to use your feet to keep the sack in the air and off the ground.
No hands! (10 voluntary pushups if you do)
2. If you miss or otherwise screw up, you can’t say, “I’m Sorry.” (10 voluntary
pushups if you do)
3. No serving to yourself. (10 voluntary pushups if you do)
4. No hotdogging. Meaning this is not about how many tricks you can do before
the sack hits the ground, and it’s not about working obsessively on tricks.
Tricks are fine but in general, we want to keep the hack going as a friendly
group and keep everyone involved.
See you at the bandshell, rain or shine. The shell provides shelter from the
rain and once a circle gets going, you’ll be plenty warm.
Tuesday, October 18th,I'll be competing with many other poets at the Rogue Poetry Slam which happens
at Caldera Tap Housein
Ashland. Sign-up is at 7:30pm and the show starts at 8. $5 cover, all of which
goes to the winning poets. If you've never been to or competed in a Poetry
Slam, I highly recommend this one. Come to watch, compete, or be one of the
judges. Some people think of slams as hardcore hip-hop events or places where
people are mean and talk trash, but nothing could be further from the truth.
All kinds of poetry are welcome and people are very supportive. And it's so
nice to participate in an event that is all about the words, or in my case, lyrics.
For me it's really not about winning or losing, but just the fun of sharing my
words with people and seeing what happens.
For more info about these and all of my shows, and to confirm
that there have been no cancellations, click here: Calendar
Since I'm putting this newsletter out once a month, it's
possible there may be a cancellation of a given show by the time it
happens. Please double check with my web calendar if possible to be
sure the gig is still happening. I'd hate to have you come out for nothing.
Also another gig or two might be added or times or locations might change, so
do check the calendar for the latest info.
Recorded Music
All of my over 30 albums are available for downloading free or
with a donation at my website: www.GeneBurnett.com
Videos In General
Overall Mission: I post a lot of videos on youtube, over
1000 so far! I'm not trying to build a fan base...In fact, I'm not trying to
build anything. I'm not expecting you or anyone else to follow what I'm doing
or watch all of these videos. Posting videos is just part of my overall plan to
make my music (and my T’ai-Chi and Nature videos too) as freely available as
possible and see what freely comes back. I think of each video as sort of like
a message in a bottle...and more I toss out there the more likely one of them
will land on a friendly shore and something good will come back to me. So here
are some video links in case you're interested:
How to Find My Videos: First of all, I've set up a "Videos" page on my website (www.GeneBurnett.com) with a menu similar to what you see
below as well as a digital tip jar in case any of you want to contribute to my
cottage industry. Every little bit helps and not just financially.
I've also set up some blogs that make navigating and viewing my
various videos much easier. You can go to any of these blogs and see thumbnails
for all of the videos posted there. Scroll across the thumbnails and you will see
the titles of each video. Click on it and a page will open that will let you
watch the video right there without going to youtube. My latest videos are
always in the upper left hand corner.
To see all of my Music videos in one easy to navigate place, click
here: The Unforced Videos
To see all of my T'ai-Chi videos in one easy to navigate place,
click here: The Unforced Movement
To see all of my Nature videos in one easy to navigate place,
click here: The Unforced Nature
For a quick and easy way to sort through, listen to, or
download all of my albums free or with a donation, click here: The Unforced Music
To see my regular blog “The Unforced Life”,
click here: The Unforced Life
To visit my youtube channel and possibly subscribe, click
here: My Youtube Channel
The Dish Whisperer (I started posting a daily picture of my dish stacking
work over a year ago. I recently crossed the 1400 straight days mark. I have no
idea how long I’ll keep doing this. I’m so used to it, it hardly takes any
effort at all to continue. I made a video for my song “I'll Do The
Dishes Tonight” that
featured a slideshow of the first year. I made it through my second year
recently, and hope to create another video slideshow set to another of my
songs. Stay tuned…)
I continue to offer all of my albums for downloading, free or
with a donation at my website: www.GeneBurnett.com I started doing this about 8 or 9 years ago and
considered it a 5 year creative experiment. Well the 5 years passed and I
decided to start calling it my "ongoing creative experiment" as I
have no plans to stop. Since I returned to my folk roots and stopped climbing,
or trying to climb, the industry ladder, I've been enjoying music in my life
more than ever before. And enjoyment, rather than achievement or worldly
success has always been dearest to my heart anyway. So now I focus totally on
what I love most: writing, recording, performing and sharing what I create. If
other people like it, so much the better, but getting other people to like me
or what I do is no longer my goal or focus. I'm out to please myself first. I
want to do my music exactly the way I want to do it and see who likes it that
way, not figure out what people will like and try to do it that way. I put it
out there freely and see what comes freely back. So far so good. I've never had
more success and appreciation than I have since I started doing it this. Go
figure.
Thanks, as usual, for your support and well wishes even if you
don't make to any shows.